Have you catch Sex and The City? It will be good to bring some tissues with you which may be of use during the show. And go with your bf will be good. Cos it’s all about relationships!
Basically, the whole show is, genuine. Genuine in portraying what is really happening around us, genuine about how we react to things happening to us, genuine about how we response after that. The naked truth.
Welcome to the adult world, if you are still living in the world of beautiful courtship, you love me, I love you, we love we. BULLSHIT I can tell you. If things are just that simple. But this is the adult world we are talking about.
And watching this show, I saw many of my own shadows how I felt and how I reacted when similar scenes in the watch triggered me to reflect upon myself.
To Miranda’s Husband:“It only happened once” – this is the classic explanation, regardless of men or women. It is not the no. of time it happened oke? It’s about the betrayal and hurt caused which are hard to get over. You just can’t face that person anymore. And it will take such a BIG step and courage to believe and trust that person (who betrayed you) again.
To Miranda:“Get done and over it” is the most insensitive sentence to say. It just shows that it’s a chore only, like a task bestow on her and that she are just fulfilling her task. That’s what happen when you have a job, a family, kids etc, but! It’s all about mind adjustment. Focus too much on the routine stuff in live that we forget about marriage is also about connection.
To Mr Big:How he painted a nice picture (knowing you will like to see nice picture), but at the end of the day, he just can’t continue painting it anymore and just throw you a word of “it’s something you always wanted”. It’s not about finding a solution, but it’s about commitment. Are you ready to commit? If not, please don’t suggest anything like “let’s get married”. Marriage is not a solution, it’s a commitment.
To Carrie:Then again, it’s about understanding and sparing a thought for the other party, and not planning an ideal wedding for you, yourself and you. At the end of the day, it’s “Our wedding” and it’s not “My wedding”.
The living a life like a zombie was what happen when something crashed upon you. Friends can be around, like how Charlotte, Miranda and Samantha kept their good friend, Carrie accompanied throughout the suppose to be a honeymoon trip. No matter how much care from those who loves you, you will feel touched by it but however, you will still chose to live like a zombie. You will hate the sun, you will love your bed, you hate waking up seeing, you just wanna shut your eyes, thinking you can shut away from your shame and what had happened. “Will I ever laugh again?” was what I felt too and it hit me when Carrie asked that same question to her friend. And the response is the same, just like my doubt. I have also once doubt that I will ever smile again. And it’s the same response I get “Yes! Definitely you will meet someone who will make you smile, and even laugh ever again!” And it’s true, life will go on and you will smile much better!
To Samantha and beau:And the efforts from Samantha, which at the end of the day, what she got was “what the fuss about it? It’s just sushi!”. That whole scene is about understanding, and appreciating. Understanding from Samantha about her bf’s working nature, and appreciation from Samantha’s bf about her efforts made! Anyway, it’s not easy to lie on the table naked with sushi laid on her body for hours! Anyway, she could have asked him to sms or call her half an hr before he reaches home so that she can get ready for the surprise instead of stupidly lying there for hours…so…she got herself to be blamed partly too..lol
To Charlotte:The luckiest one among them all, probably is Charlotte, who unfortunately couldn’t get pregnant but fortunately managed to. Her doubt about being too blessed. Everything just turn out to be too nice for her that at the end of the day worries her too! Well, that’s what happen when our lives get too smooth sailing and only good events seems to be happening to us only. We started to have doubts if things last? We started to have doubts that will bad things be surfacing soon? We just need abit more of encouragement and believe. Even if bad things happen, well, bad things do happen every time, so meantime, just enjoy all the good that happen!
And after the show, I realized I should stop talking about the past, well it’s been almost two years and YAWN...…yes…boring. For this, I can say “get done and over it!”
It’s a new chapter for me, finally!