Monday, November 03, 2008

A friendship I finally see the light

MIUMIU"S WORD: “Friendships aint an investment, you don’t expect returns at the end of the day. Friendships are like a charity organization, giving and non profitable.”


Ppl who help others, with the mindset of thinking of reaping returns at the end of the day, will never be a happy person. Becos they always expect others to appreciates, to repay, to be thankful for what they did. And how can one appreciates other’s help when one knows it’s a motive? How can we treat such help and concern with grateful and appreciation?

Why are these ppl always thinking of helping others for something in return instead of understanding the blessing they have of being capable to help others?

And that is why I can never be fully appreciative of what others do for me, don’t blame me. Blame it on your expectations of reaping something in return, which makes your helping hand more like a pair of hands curving inwards to protect and love and hug your own self. Its all about you, never about me.

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