Many times, I come across this common trial in the gentlemen who sort of tries very hard to express their “best” and glorious part or achievements in order to leave deep impressions and perhaps, also acceptance from the ladies.
This common trial, or should I say, does not only apply to the gentleman but to the ladies as well. So, to be fair, lets just put it as, people in general.
I, myself has came across a few people whom I happen to know are full of such trials. Some would try to create an impression that they own a few cars, but in reality, only after a few more in-depth conversations, would they reveal that, either the loans are under their names but car is driven by their siblings or family members who also plays a part in paying the loan and their name are just documented in the loan form that’s all, or what they mean is, they USED TO have carS, but now no longer, or, actually the rightful owners are their siblings or parents. So why so create an impression and brag to say they are owners of a few cars?
I have also come cross people whom insist they are of very high positions, but in layman terms, are just insurance/policy agents or investments “sellers” whom hard sells every time they spots a potential target from the banking system. Either they say they are doing their own business, or they term themselves as bankers. But just not the occupational title written on their employment letters. So why create an impression of a high flyer?
I have also come across people whom wears singlet and gear up with gadgets and all, running like sissy in the street, running faster when they see which strangers on the road they see and wants to impress, and when the stranger they want to impress, could no longer be in sight, they slowed down then huff and puff with difficulty. So why create an impression of being a regular athletic runner?
I have also come across people whom uses BIG bombastic words in their mails or emails but only after you start to talk to them in person, you will realize that or doubt, that whatever written work are either done by another person, or choose from the list of synonyms. So why create an impression of being an intellectual and in-depth person?
I have also come across a few people whom insist that they are single, but actually, they are on separation mode with their spouse, thus they deduced that they are single. But shouldn’t they explain further of their marital status since there is one even though it’s a separation? So why create an impression of being single and available?
I have also come across very pretty girls and their boyfriends whom happily hold their arms around their gf’s waists, showing them off like an exhibit. But only upon closer look would you realize how they girls look like after shedding off the tons of makeup beneath that naked skin and removal of the false lashes and eye liner? So why create an impression of being another Kate Moss?
I have also commonly seen people with monograms totes and purses in different sizes and all, walking in the busy streets of orchard road with their sunglasses and heads held up higher than their nose tips, but only upon close look, you will scream “Ek! Fake one!” Either the nose is fake, or the “ornaments” (their “branded bags”) are fake. So why create an impression of rich tai tai?
Was it our ego and pride that plays in the major part or was it the acceptance from the society that made some of us an “Impression-nist” than to being a down to earth “Real-list”?
We just cant accept the way we are, or the society won't accept us as what we are?
Actually people like that don't impress me for I am an "Ideal-list". Once you give me the idea of trying to impress me, the more motionless I become.
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