Recently, I have got friends asking me why dont I try out applying for Flight Stewardess position. I mean, I have heard of that since many years ago. My ex colleagues always encouraged me to consider that. I do have that dream when I was in my poly days. I mean, it was good pay, gets to travel, "easy job", gets to look great at all times and admire by many, blah blah blah. Yup! Indeed it felt great to be called The SG Girl. Back then, I admire them very much. They were like a Singapore Icon. But becos of my eye sight, my fear for swimming in the water, and dreaded attention, thank god that idea was dropped without much hesitation.
The heads turned when they see your hour-glassed figure in that batik uniforms. Thick make ups to highlight facial features slightly lesser than a wayang actress, nice handbags to show off the glam side of the occupation and conceals the ugly side of it, good posture to portray you are different from others or simply becos of the tight fitted uniforms that keeps one's spine upright all the time, neat styled hair which seems like one is wearing a wig poured with over-coated hair spray.
All you have to do is to bring the passengers their drinks, foods, blankets, showing them how to wear the life saving vest and how to blow the whistle. Taking care of the passengers like you are a nanny. Is that just so simple? I believe there are so much tough trainings behind that glam look which was portray to the public. How many of them will have to withstand unreasonable requests, squeezing through that narrow walk way, withstanding those lewd eyes checking out your butt, or how many back stabbings there are among colleagues and how stressful it can be when you have to deal with imprompt two demands in the public eyes?
An officer once told me that it is not as glam as many years before. Flight stewardess is just another job and the standards and demand criterias have dropped drastically. Rumours saying many simply just hop ard into different hotel rooms simple becos they thought it was safe and "adultery" will never get caught when you are in overseas. Many times there are pros and cons we just have to weigh. I do not believe all the girls will do that but never dares to rule out that possiblity cos everything has it's bright and dark side.
I was at the airport some time back and saw the SG Girls again. But I realise that admiration I had for them was long gone. Some was abit shorter than me, some were a little tiny bit fleshy, trying to squeeze and hide their extra fats in the body hugging uniforms (but in the end got highlighted by the number of rings formed around their waist) which seems to be bursting if they ever bend down to scratch their ankle. The make ups I used to thought were looking great, now looks abit scary esp if I sees them in the late evenings.
Seriously right now, they are simply just an upperclass waitress to me when I need my drink or nannies to nurse me when I need a blanket. The glam and unglam sides you see, its up to your beliefs. I still prefer to be taken care of when I am traveling.
YC! Glad you never join Qatas! LOL!
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Hi there, reading yr this entry really interest mi..I totally agree wif wat u've said..It's not tat easy and besides, the criteria is no longer there..U'll meet many types of weird ppl, like wat u've described, fat & short or maybe, even ugly..It's not tat glam like wat ppl think..Imagine, apologising to the pax juz bcoz they dun have their choice of meal or when the entertainment system is down & it's not even yr fault!!??..How irritating..and there are many more...
Of coz, the gd part is tat u'll get to travel and all those discounts(hehe)..Not all of us have the passion for flying..Some for family sake,some to save up..others, maybe for the attention..I dun noe..
I didn't noe it was this tough until i joined them..and maybe to others, they might be thinking "how the H*** she can make it" =P (haha)..if they wanna judge, ppl r judging them too..
It's a great exposure to join cabin crew but juz gotta make yrself prepared for the unexpected..
U've wat it takes to be one..But trust me,i took a loooong time to adapt into it..
and Hey, Happy B'lated B'day!!
S
Hey Sab! Wei this post not directed at you hor. I just happen to see those SG girls that day at airport then they gave a snobbish looks as if they..... you know? I guess its hell tough stressful and dangerous. Shrt term is a gd exposure though while you are young. Long term i guess, many girls have saved that money to do their own business or marrying someone rich they met on the plane! Some I heard became buyers becos of their good source to buy good deals from overseas.
But one thing for sure, the standard in their appearance has dropped alot man though customer service is still "upper class".
It is true that stewardess from Japan Airlines are much prettier? And who cares abt stewards? LOL!
Well, well, I used to think in awe of being a SG Girl too...! hahaha. In fact till now, I am still impressed with their poise. Suppose it's a lot of hard work they put through to be like that. But.. ya.. I also prefer to be pampered. Enough of customer service in my job!
Hahaha..wat i noe, some opened up shops like manicure, pubs or fashion..Some also wk part time as insurance too..So far for Japan airline, I've seen a couple pretty ones but some, abit 'senior' lah..Lao Jiao alreadi...British Airway,also got some scary ones,like those older ones..C liao, kena nitemare..
Anyway,stewards, sad to say..Some pay more attention to their own kind then us, gals.. =P But they're interesting & hiao ppl but when u meet those bitchy ones, tat's it..suffer all the way..
To Luxelass:
Being in customer service not easy rite..sometimes juz wish to strangle them..Pek Chek ah!!Hahaha..Hey, wat kind of customer service do u need to provide? R u in some kind of banking?
Cheers!!
Take care
S
I'm in international banking - my clients are all overseas, which explains why I also need to travel for business.
Hee, I agree with what anon says... However, in almost all jobs, you have to put up with unreasonable requests...
And regarding apologizing to other for no faults of yours, I guess we as passengers have to be more considerate... Damn the hell whether you are paying... Remember that the person in front of you is of real flesh and mind... I'm certain that you mentioning that you understand that it is no fault of hers and saying some good things will make everybody's day better...
And Miu, finally able to sense happiness slowly creeping into your life... Feel so happy for you... Yo Chap, keep up the good work... :)
Hopefully, nowsaday, your painting will be lively and radiate love and happiness...
Cheers
And I also agree with Miu that it's lucky that YC never join Qanta...
Hee, what if he turns from the straight path as what anon mentioned...
Is not so simple, looking good is not everything... There are many other things you need to consider. Many of them are average if you talk about look but how many can handle the stress of handling a bunch of picky ppl asking crazy questions and not only, smiling even when the plane is shaking like crazy, keep their cold blood in moments when many of us will freak out... Is not easy to smile when your personal life maybe sucks but they can do it... No one is perfect but hey, i've seen so many trying and just a few passing the tests and even less make it to really become a SIA girl. "Pretty" is not the reason of being choosed... "Pretty" is the image they sale to attract customers. If you are in the plane and the steward is a guy with a scary smile with a big tatoo on the arm and come to you and ask you: "What?!?!?" (and this description fit many of the uncles in a hokka center) will you feel good? I guess not :) I bet you'll rather prefer someone to be able to smile whatever stupid question you'll ask and even if the plane is crashing to look at you smiling like nothing will going to happen... I'm not a big fan of SIA girls or any other company, but I appreciate what they do and I know for sure that being one of them is not as easy as we are used to think, is a job with a lot of stress and risks (planes crashes everyday, everywhere can be a crazy guy with a bomb or a gun or a knife, etc)...
Luxelass: Hope to c u onboard..
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